Men Don't Heal, They Ho

[Five Realms]

I know you guys have heard about this book. I haven't read it but I have heard people talking about it, & heard some interviews with the author. It seems like a book I can identify with, and one I'd like to read.

I know I'm guilty on all charges when it comes to having my heart broken & covering it up with smashin. It doesn't make it right but dammit it sure does help!

While I'm gettin up in it I be like



But then when it's all done I'm like


With that being said, who has the audio book, and what are your thoughts on this?

 

[M.H.C.]

Sex ain't better than love.













*ducks*

 

[Rick Ronson]

pretty much

 

[mike123]

one star

 

[clitsational]

never heard of it

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"Men Don't Heal, We Ho" is a tell-all book about relationships and how to fix them.

Relationship expert Steven James Dixon will release his first non-fiction book on October 1st titled

"Men Don't Heal, We Ho - A Book About the Emotional Instability of Men."

The book delves into the longtime Dallas resident's transformation from a "HO" to a successful husband and father. "I speak directly to single women, single men, wives and husbands," Dixon says. "The book is about men because the emotional stability of the 'man' is the key element to having a successful relationship.

If we get the men right, the women will fall in line."

This book will definitively answer the following concerns for women:
1. Why your boyfriend won't make you his wife.
2. Why you might not want your boyfriend to be your husband.
3. Why you are single while she is married.
4. How to get a man and keep a husband.
5. How to be the best wife that you can be.

This book will definitively answer the following concerns for men:
1. Why you are not ready to get married.
2. Why your homeboy is cheating on his wife.
3. How you can have a happy marriage.
4. What is expected of you as a husband.
5. How to be emotional and still maintain your manhood.

"My experience and research have produced a body of knowledge about relationships. This body of knowledge has helped many men and women discover truths about their own relationships and lives," explains Dixon.

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[3 Times]

This is true, and I've been guilty of it since before I even started having sex. The best way for me to deal with a break up (since middle school) was get a new girlfriend.


But I'd like to add to the concept of this book, which I'm sure this book covers at some point:

Depression = wanting to get more bitches

Looking back on my life, when I was the most depressed, I was the most thirsty for pussy. When I was in a happy space, I was content with my wife. When I got back to being depressed (it was a cycle) I was back to chasing bitches on the side with little regard.


Anybody else notice this correlation?

 

[kwazdog]

Based in truth for a lot of men but not all... More stereotype than truth for me, unless you count porn addiction as hoe'ing!

 

[Cock Head Jones]

3times Were u always a dyke or did u start off liking guys?

 

[kwazdog]

never heard of it



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Im gonna read this just on the strength of understanding "the game" and human psychology.

 

[mk23666]

This is true, and I've been guilty of it since before I even started having sex. The best way for me to deal with a break up (since middle school) was get a new girlfriend.


But I'd like to add to the concept of this book, which I'm sure this book covers at some point:

Depression = wanting to get more bitches

Looking back on my life, when I was the most depressed, I was the most thirsty for pussy. When I was in a happy space, I was content with my wife. When I got back to being depressed (it was a cycle) I was back to chasing bitches on the side with little regard.


Anybody else notice this correlation?

I would agree. when depressed I wasn't really looking for quality women, but once out of the rut I would leave the side chick types be. In a sense I guess misery does love company.

 

[geckosticky1]

Truth to this!! Where that link at?

 

[Onpoint]

They might be oon to something

 

[3 Times]

Based in truth for a lot of men but not all... More stereotype than truth for me, unless you count porn addiction as hoe'ing!

I believe there's definitely a connection there also, and I am speaking from personal experience. Really, ANY addiction stems from some form of depression.

 

[water]

And women heal, they don't ho?

Book written to beat men into being more emotional.

Men cheat physically

Women cheat emotionally

When a relationship ends, men go get their physical needs met

Women continue to get their emotional needs met.

So now, this "man" is trying to say emotional needs > physical needs for men?

That is a female perspective.

Fuck that.

Who is to judge?

 

[water]

Some women will fuck another man because they are pissed with you

1 night stands don't count

They appear to be not hoe-ing

 

[3 Times]

I would agree. when depressed I wasn't really looking for quality women, but once out of the rut I would leave the side chick types be. In a sense I guess misery does love company.

Man when I was depressed I was so turned on (pause) by ratchet no good bitches (with a fat ass). Also turned on by females in bad situations. It could have been a neighbor, my wife's friend or relative, my homeboy's girl or whatever. The more wrong it was, the more geeked up I was to get it. It's CRAZY how our low vibrations are sexually attracted to situations of a similarly low vibration.

 

[ukNoWwHo]

I dont agree with the title of the book. Me fucking mad women wasn't because of a broken heart. I just love pussy....especially new pussy.

 

[Cybts1]

Sex ain't better than love.

*ducks*

 

[ukNoWwHo]

And women heal, they don't ho

Some women will fuck another man because they are pissed with you

1 night stands don't count

They appear to be not hoe-ing

Bro this just a book trying to target in on the "men aint shit market".

 

[CPT Callamity]

You want to cure depression? Just have people who ask you "what are you depressed for/have to be depressed about? " Then let it marinate. Poof, no more depression.

 

[3 Times]

You want to cure depression? Just have people who ask you "what are you depressed for/have to be depressed about? " Then let it marinate. Poof, no more depression.

Not everyone works like that. Some people cannot be talked out of their depression, in fact I'd say most people. In my experience, the best thing is to let people be, and give them the space to figure it out on their own. As the saying goes: live and learn. Every fuck up a person has is ultimately an opportunity to learn about themselves. THAT'S more powerful than any conversation or question that could ever be raised.

 

[M.H.C.]

 

[tallblacknyc]

Bro this just a book trying to target in on the "men aint shit market".

truth.com


9 times out of 10 if a dude is fucking more after his breakup its because in a relationship ur use to a consistant nut from ur main chick once she leaves ur dick needs some consistant pussy to make up for da loss whether it be with 1 new broad or many..it's more physical than emotional

 

[water]

Bro this just a book trying to target in on the "men aint shit market".

Man, can you imagine what men would look like in the next 25 yrs?

Role reversal in full effect.

 

[3 Times]

truth.com


9 times out of 10 if a dude is fucking more after his breakup its because in a relationship ur use to a consistant nut from ur main chick once she leaves ur dick needs some consistant pussy to make up for da loss whether it be with 1 new broad or many..it's more physical than emotional

The physical is used as a distraction to avoid the emotional

 

[kinglickk]

Sex ain't better than love.





*ducks*

I shoot low so I got you in the dome!!

 

[Genesiswiz]

So did someone forget how we do around here?

Where is the link?

 

[Uncontainable_Spirit]

Basically... again... men ain't shit. Coupled with the fact that since we are ho-ing we never heal and are irrevocably broken... forever... UNLESS we behave like women behave... Got it.

 

[freshnclean]

Women dont heal, they get rebound guy(s). They usually get plowed out until somebody relationship worthy comes along. I dont know why that shit gets swept under the rug so much...

Really, ANY addiction stems from some form of depression.

In that case, everyone on the planet is depressed, because everyone is addicted to something

 

[curryshotta]

how does one become a "relationship expert"

 

[3 Times]

Women dont heal, they get rebound guy(s). They usually get plowed out until somebody relationship worthy comes along. I dont know why that shit gets swept under the rug so much...



In that case, everyone on the planet is depressed, because everyone is addicted to something

I disagree with your theory on women rebounding to heal. Sure it happens, but in my experiences most women shut down and don't wanna date anymore after they've been hurt. Hence the whole movement of the career minded women in the last 20 plus years.


And I also disagree with you stating everyone is addicted to something. Most people? Possibly. But not everyone. I just quit my weed habit (30 something days) and so my last addiction to get rid of is food. I'd like to eat a lot more healthy without falling back into eating bullshit. But I am sure there are plenty of healthy eaters that do drink or do drugs.

 

[clitsational]

but in my experiences most women shut down and don't wanna date anymore after they've been hurt.​

my next door neighbor is a classic example

her daughters father musta hurt her bad cus she aint let nobody else near that pussy

saddest thing tho she aint teach her daughter shit cus she ended up being the second baby moms
for the deadbeat rottweiler training dude up the street



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[Blu Diablo]

The outward expression of emotional/romantic love is the domain of women. We may attempt to become proficient at it for the purpose of obtaining women but it is not our primary instinct.

As a couple of dudes have already alluded to, this book sounds like an attempt to browbeat men into behaving in ways that women find "acceptable" instead of acknowledging and accepting that we are built to be different.

 

[3 Times]

my next door neighbor is a classic example

her daughters father musta hurt her bad cus she aint let nobody else near that pussy

saddest thing tho she aint teach her daughter shit cus she ended up being the second baby moms
for the deadbeat rottweiler training dude up the street



[/CENTER]

at the dead beat rottweiler trainer up the street. Interesting neighborhood.

 

[CPT Callamity]

Not everyone works like that. Some people cannot be talked out of their depression, in fact I'd say most people. In my experience, the best thing is to let people be, and give them the space to figure it out on their own. As the saying goes: live and learn. Every fuck up a person has is ultimately an opportunity to learn about themselves. THAT'S more powerful than any conversation or question that could ever be raised.

I was being very sarcastic but sadly it is how many dudes I know deal with it... .either that or smoke and drink their brains out. Or they fuck...