We love you and appreciate you all...
The Black Mother the Black Wife the Black Sister the Black Daughter....
no one does it better.
2016 Random whatever.....
- Thread starter ladyscorpio
- Start date
- Status
We love you and appreciate you all...
The Black Mother the Black Wife the Black Sister the Black Daughter....
no one does it better.
dream board
Can you please elaborate on this?
it's how you keep moving forward. test boundaries, push limits, charter new territories. a shock to the system; a challenge
I don't mean danger, harm and causing yourself pain
I was JUST gonna post the same thing..
the train to work is becoming more and more bearable.
I read this too fast & mistook "person" for "prison"going to see her in person in 6 days. she is coming this way two weeks after that.
It's my mind... I need a relief.
for Cleveland..good luck!
Lemme tell y'all 'bout this chick....
First, we met in L.A. Fitness parking. She and her friend spoke and made light convo as I parked and walked in, when I came out she had put her card on my truck. She worked at the CDC
Man, this chick 35, and ain't had sex in 5 years... and I believe her. Too many clues point to it being true, and she like to be all affectionate & shit. Like all over a nigga, all mushy & romantic and shit. I had to stop her from fucking w/ me like that if she wasn't gon fuck, I straight up told her like that..... bih, my dick ain't to be trifled wit.
I ask her why it's been 5 years, she says she's waiting on a relationship. So she ain't had nothin close to a relationship for 5 years.
Then after talkin' for about a month or so, she tells me it's more like 10 years, but there was 1 guy she fucked in the middle of the 10 year (self inflicted) drought. So I been calling her 10 years a virgin (and "no salt" because she don't cook w/ no salt, bih food be bland as Golden Coral). So I engage her about the 10 years thing and how she waiting on a relationship. I ask her how she expects to get from "talkin" or "dating" to a "relationship" without bussin it open and ask her if she thinks that maybe she runs niggas off by sending mixed signals with all the affection. She gon ask me, "is it sexual or intimate?"
I said, "It's sexual, I know the difference" She know what it is ... I done slept over her apt, I sleep bucket neked, and I wake up to her looking at me. She flat told me one time that she stares at my dick when I'm sleep. Mind you, when I first met I tried to fuck like twice, she let it get hot & heavy but wouldn't suck the dick or let me fuck
Usually I'on give a chick a second time to disappoint... I got a saying, "If she'on fuck on the first night (first oppurtunity), it won't be a second", but I let her do it
She got laid off so I was trying to encourage her into starting a non-profit and getting funds from CDC (that's the dept. she worked in anyway, she checked up on different non-profits around the region that CDC gave money to & made sure they was using the money like they said they would)
Then another day after we had talked about pornos, she asks if I can show her some porn on my laptop.... Shid, I showed her! I'on remember what clip it was, but when it got to the part where the chick was sucking dick with a lot of spit, and the money shot.... she acted like it was a horror movie. She gasped, yelled, covered her face with both hands! I looked at her w/ a raised eyebrow and made mental note, "Me & dis bih can't do NOTHIN in the sex department" 
So tonight she calls and asks me about my day, asks me when I want her to come help me with some organization stuff at my office, I say, "Iunno, I'll let you know". I small talk & get off phone. She calls back and asks me if I wanna come over, I'm like "not tonight" (I don't ever sleep good over there, and I need to use my AutoPAP machine) She starts in about how she's frustrated and shit. I know what it is ... I'm playing coy tho. I had already told her that I thought we should be friends, I'm brutally honest, I always keep it 100. So I end up telling her why I don't think we're compatible (1. she ain't sexually on my level... no cumshot, no finish mouth, cringe @ thought of exchange of bodily fluids. 2. she needy, amount & kind of affection she needs is childlike). I had debated with myself if I should tell her why because it could very likely not have a positive effect or outcome. It didn't. It started downhill when I asked if she's approachable. She was crying before we got off the phone, not understanding why everybody critiquing her ways when it comes to meeting men.
Now that I think about it, she the second chick I had cry on the phone today..
First, we met in L.A. Fitness parking. She and her friend spoke and made light convo as I parked and walked in, when I came out she had put her card on my truck. She worked at the CDC
Man, this chick 35, and ain't had sex in 5 years... and I believe her. Too many clues point to it being true, and she like to be all affectionate & shit. Like all over a nigga, all mushy & romantic and shit. I had to stop her from fucking w/ me like that if she wasn't gon fuck, I straight up told her like that..... bih, my dick ain't to be trifled wit.
I ask her why it's been 5 years, she says she's waiting on a relationship. So she ain't had nothin close to a relationship for 5 years.
Then after talkin' for about a month or so, she tells me it's more like 10 years, but there was 1 guy she fucked in the middle of the 10 year (self inflicted) drought. So I been calling her 10 years a virgin (and "no salt" because she don't cook w/ no salt, bih food be bland as Golden Coral). So I engage her about the 10 years thing and how she waiting on a relationship. I ask her how she expects to get from "talkin" or "dating" to a "relationship" without bussin it open and ask her if she thinks that maybe she runs niggas off by sending mixed signals with all the affection. She gon ask me, "is it sexual or intimate?"
I said, "It's sexual, I know the difference" She know what it is ... I done slept over her apt, I sleep bucket neked, and I wake up to her looking at me. She flat told me one time that she stares at my dick when I'm sleep. Mind you, when I first met I tried to fuck like twice, she let it get hot & heavy but wouldn't suck the dick or let me fuck Usually I'on give a chick a second time to disappoint... I got a saying, "If she'on fuck on the first night (first oppurtunity), it won't be a second", but I let her do it
She got laid off so I was trying to encourage her into starting a non-profit and getting funds from CDC (that's the dept. she worked in anyway, she checked up on different non-profits around the region that CDC gave money to & made sure they was using the money like they said they would)
Then another day after we had talked about pornos, she asks if I can show her some porn on my laptop....
Shid, I showed her! I'on remember what clip it was, but when it got to the part where the chick was sucking dick with a lot of spit, and the money shot.... she acted like it was a horror movie. She gasped, yelled, covered her face with both hands! I looked at her w/ a raised eyebrow and made mental note, "Me & dis bih can't do NOTHIN in the sex department" So tonight she calls and asks me about my day, asks me when I want her to come help me with some organization stuff at my office, I say, "Iunno, I'll let you know". I small talk & get off phone. She calls back and asks me if I wanna come over, I'm like "not tonight" (I don't ever sleep good over there, and I need to use my AutoPAP machine) She starts in about how she's frustrated and shit. I know what it is ... I'm playing coy tho. I had already told her that I thought we should be friends, I'm brutally honest, I always keep it 100. So I end up telling her why I don't think we're compatible (1. she ain't sexually on my level... no cumshot, no finish mouth, cringe @ thought of exchange of bodily fluids. 2. she needy, amount & kind of affection she needs is childlike). I had debated with myself if I should tell her why because it could very likely not have a positive effect or outcome. It didn't. It started downhill when I asked if she's approachable. She was crying before we got off the phone, not understanding why everybody critiquing her ways when it comes to meeting men.
Now that I think about it, she the second chick I had cry on the phone today..
The Message
How am I wrong?
I told you something in confidence, complete confidence.
And you come back mad as hell because I aint told you the truth.
I aint told you the TRUTH cause I suspected you would run tell that...and you did.
Why you mad at me for?
I told you something in confidence, complete confidence.
And you come back mad as hell because I aint told you the truth.
I aint told you the TRUTH cause I suspected you would run tell that...and you did.
Why you mad at me for?
Just watched the big brother Elvis Dumervil on Sportscenter, talking about Haitian athletes uniting to help build an infrastructure back home.
I don't care what folks on here think about cops. One of the cops who died went to my gym, and he was a good person.
That shit wasn't right.
That shit wasn't right.
So far IK de island is nice. Still no recollection of my last time here but that's ok.
Enjoying the vibe so far. Too bad you on another island dread would've been Irie to link dun know.
so the New Orleans trip was a big success.
her room was at the inn on St. Peter. The room was small yet cozy and the water pressure to the shower was awful, but it had a balcony, courtyard, and was a few blocks from bourban and canal st.
i parked my car a few blocks away and left it there the whole time.
did a lot of walking and people watching.
every place i took her for meals was excellent
we even went to the popeyes on canal so she could get the real popeyes from the city where it all began.
we already have our next 3 visits planned.
her room was at the inn on St. Peter. The room was small yet cozy and the water pressure to the shower was awful, but it had a balcony, courtyard, and was a few blocks from bourban and canal st.
i parked my car a few blocks away and left it there the whole time.
did a lot of walking and people watching.
every place i took her for meals was excellent
we even went to the popeyes on canal so she could get the real popeyes from the city where it all began.
we already have our next 3 visits planned.
- Status